... but only the things left behind by those who hustle."

The past few days have been an emotional rollercoaster, but I've tightened up my safety belt, and holding on!  I've been really pensive about everything going on in my life right now, from relationships, to family life, to my career... It's not always about what you want to do, but what you need to do, to get where you want to be! (Preach sister, preach!) lol

To contrast my heavy heart and emotions, here are some fun pics that were shot the other day.  I had a lot of fun shooting this look, my bff Sasha and I were cracking up the whole time!  I find these pics pretty fun, I hope you do too :)

On a lighter note, I found out that one of my photos has been selected to be featured in Essence Magazine's "Street Style" page!  It's a two-page spread featuring women from all over the country, showcasing their style!  I'm a big fan of Essence Magazine, it has been a staple in my household for as long as I can remember!  The feature won't be out until the new year, so I'll let you know when it's issued, so you all can look out for it!

More fun news, I found myself on The Moptop Maven's blog!  I am a reader of her blog, and find her content really informative and refreshing!  But I actually wasn't the one who discovered it.  My mom's soror did.  Then some friends shortly following!  I thought it was pretty cool, you can check out the post here.

Wearing: ASOS Blue denim shirt, vintage leopard scarf, Elephant Bone/Wood earrings, Circa Joan & David Hunter Green heeled boots

For a little bit of hair talk, I've been wearing my twist out like it's my job.  It's big and curly, and I love it!  All I'm doing when it's loosing it's "umph" is re-twisting it every other night and adding a little shea butter while twisting.  I also am going to be posting a new youtube video soon!  I've been getting a lot of emails and questions regarding how to take care of your hair after you do the big chop!  I'll let you know when it's posted!

I also joined lookbook, so whomever is on it, send me your links!  Here is mine: lookbook

Whenever I'm feeling down, or having a tough week, I try to remember this: "Do something positive and creative every single day. It can be a small thing, from writing a few lyrics to writing a thank you card to a friend. Bring positivity to people, and that is what you will receive. Create and you will inspire! A little goes a long way, do this everyday and you’ll notice a change of energy and light in your life."

Have a great week,

Kris

Good morning!  It's Thursday, which means it's almost the weekend!

I assume most of you ladies are on Facebook.  And I'm sure you were well aware of the "Numbers Game" going around, which was ALL OVER my newsfeed, and I'm sure it was on yours too.  The games goes: You send a person a message with any number, and they post that number as their status along with stating anything they'd like about you.  It could turn into a sticky situation yes, but since I NEVER participate in Facebook debauchery, I decided for once, why not?

I ended up having a lot of fun doing it, I gave everyone that messaged me positivity, and I received positivity from the people I messaged as well.  Ain't nuthin' wrong with showing people some love!  Did you guys participate?

These are pics of me being "coy" and "flirty" on Photo Booth... I'm an only child... Don't judge lol.      

I'm still rocking my natural big hair just so ya'll know :)

I actually got a lot of positive feedback from new hair do I tried out.  Thanks guys!  I actually started loving it as the days went on, and it seemed to get bigger and better each day.  Literally.  It started turning into Tracee Ellis Ross hair!  My mom even thought I had wet it or something cuz it started frizzing and volumizing on it's own.  But that's what you get when you have natural hair... It has a mind of it's own!!...  And as a side note to natural ladies, I'm really enjoying the shea butter I used, it smells so good too!  I posted the link to the website in my last post if you're interested in purchasing :)

As far as other updates, something tragic happened.  I lost MY FAVORITE lip liner.  My favorite one! I could've misplaced it, but I'm saying it's lost because I'm dramatic like that.  So I guess my only option will be to run to the M.A.C. store and get another one ( it gives me an excuse to go makeup shopping hehe).

I also mentioned in my last post that I found my New Year's Eve dress.  WRONG.  I decided I don't want to wear it for NYE.  It was honestly an impulse purchase, and I plan to return it.  I had a vision of what I wanted to wear, and this dress doesn't even come close.  It is a pretty dress though...

I kind of want to show you what I WILL be wearing for NYE, but I want it to be a surprise... I might break down and reveal it to you guys ;)

Have a great day,

Kris

**udpate: After giving Kanye's album a better listen, I take back the negative stated.  The song I was referring to turned out to be one of my favorite tracks!  His usage of metaphors and rhythm with these monster tracks are amazing.  I absolutely LOVE his new album, and it's different from anything he has ever done, but in a great way!**

Good afternoon!  I've been bumpin Kanye's new album all day, and I have to say, I like it.  It's different from anything he's ever done, and I like the direction he's moving in.  The only negative I have about the album is the fact that there are so many features on the album.  11 people on one track.  Is that reallllyyy necessary?!  I'd rather hear him do three verses, than a chorus, if you know what I mean...

Anywho, I get so excited to read your comments and check out all of your blogs.  There is so much talent out there, thank you all for sharing that talent with me!!  It's honestly really inspiring!

I did a little Christmas shopping yesterday, and if there was a 1st place, I think I would win for "best presents."  And I'm not talking about how much money I spent, I just really nailed it this year.  I'm excited for everyone to open their presents!  Did you guys check out my wish list from the post below?   Do any of you have anything you hope to receive this Christmas?

           Besides that, I've been watching Beyonce's Thanksgiving Special on DVD daily (I'm a FAN) lol.

I did my hair differently, I like it ok, but I don't think it'll last that long...

I used this brand of shea butter to twist my hair, all natural and it smells so good!

Chic Afrique shea butters, purchase here

I found my New Year's Eve dress, but don't have any plans yet.  Last year I went to the city (NYC) and partied with some friends.  I had a great time and plan to go to the city again this year, but I don't know where I'll be going!  I still have some time to figure it out ;)

wearing: Forever 21 Sweater, Navy AA blouse, Citizens of Humanity jeans, Dolce Vita suede boots, vintage jewelry

Have a great rest of the weekend!

Can you believe it's December 1st?!  WOW, the year is almost at an end!  Shoutout to all the Sags?! (I'm a big astrology fan haha)

I've decided to do a short post to share with you all my wish list. We all have one, so why not share? And no, I cannot afford half of these items, hence the name "wish," but it's harmless to dream, right?.....

"I WIsh" List by The Kris Bliss featuring a

Leopard Love Coat, $178
Levi's LVC 505 Straight Leg, $265
Pleated Maxi Skirt, $90
Corset Wedge Booties, $995
Tory Burch Logo leather clutch, $350
Yves Saint Laurent Arty glass ring, $195
MICHAEL Michael Kors Kenton Leopard-Print Belt, $88
Deborah Lippmann Nail Color, $18
Pieces Clear Round Glasses, $21

I've been discovering new things about myself every day. It's an exciting journey I'm on, and I feel that I'm growing everyday. I guess perfect timing, since the new year is right around the corner! I also have some cool things coming up for you guys this month too, so stay tuned :) To anyone who's checking out my blog and liking it, please do me the honor of following or subscribing! And I'm still checking out your blogs when you add the links under your comments! Thanks for sharing!  Before I leave you, I wanted to make aware that:


On this day, 55 years ago, Rosa Parks stood up for her rights by refusing to give up her seat on a bus to a white passenger. It is women like her that I thank that I am able to live the life I live today. It is women/men like her that have inspired me to always stand up for what I believe in, and never submit to any discrimination of any kind. It also pushes me to work hard and to succeed, because I wouldn't be afforded the rights I have today if it wasn't for the Civil Rights Movement. Thank you Rosa Parks.


It is also World AIDS Day. Let us remember those who have lost the battle to destructive disease. But to bring positivity, we have come along way as far as treatment, and millions of lives have been saved over the past decade from advancement in medicine.


Sincerely,
Kris

Happy Thanksgiving!!  I know it was yesterday but I can still say it, right??  I had a lovely Thanksgiving and I have some things that I am grateful for!  I'm really grateful for family.  They've always been there for me, anytime I need it, and it felt so good to be around loved ones.  This is also the first Thanksgiving without my Grandmother, who passed away a couple of days before Thanksgiving last year.  I am very grateful for her.  We all missed her this year, but I think about her everyday and can feel her watching over me, and it makes me feel better :)

I'm very thankful for my Pop Pop, who just recently turned 88 (can you believe it!) who is always supportive of any dream or endeavor I have, even if it may be crazy or unreasonable.

I'm very grateful for my parents who are pushing me to chase after my dreams.  They just want me to be happy, and will always be behind me if ever and whenever I need them!  Love you guys!

I am also thankful for all of my friends all over the country.  I wish I could see you all regularly!  I'm  additionally thankful for all of the positive feedback and lovely comments I'm getting from you all!  I really appreciate it, more than you know :D

Dinner was at my Aunt's house and I sat at the kiddie table (as usual), but we upgraded the name to the, ahem, "Young Adult" table this year lol.

Adult Table

YOUNG Adult Table

I know my hair looks short, but I have it pinned up.  It's time to wash it, so I might do a tutorial on a new natural doo I'm going to try ;)  And good luck to all you ladies shopping today on Black Friday!  Be careful!!  I did what I'd like to call "online" Black Friday shopping, but it turned out to be just as stressful!! :/

List one thing you're thankful for this year, I'd love to read them!

Sincerely,
Kris

All photography from this post by: http://aphlyonthewallphotography.com

We all know it's harder to keep your skin glowing and hydrated in the wintertime. It can suck even more (if you live in cooler climates) that you have to keep your arms and legs covered for almost six months straight! Meanwhile, your skin isn't getting the attention that it needs!........ No bueno. If you're nostalgic for that summer glow, and want to keep your skin softer than a baby's behind all year long, I may have a couple tricks up my sleeve to make that happen!

I want to share with you all what I do to keep my skin soft, clear, and smooth!

Face to Face:
I started using the Origins skin care product line beginning in high school, and have been using it ever since!  I have really sensitive skin, and I have never had a single issue with any of their products.  Here is what I use on a regular basis:

Checks and Balances: You want a daily cleanser that cleanses well, but gentle enough not to leave your skin feeling dull and parched.  This frothy cleanser targets both oily and dry skin, and leaves my face feeling so fresh and so clean clean. *the little green tube was a free sampler, still testing it out :)
A Perfect World: is my absolute favorite product from the line.  It's hard to find a single product that totally moisturizes my skin.  This moisturizer has a thick consistency, and is made with White Tea that gives your face an almost silky feel.  After applying this product, my skin has a nice glow, and no need to re-apply!  Your face will feel good as new until the next time you wash!
Have a Nice Day: Even in the winter your skin is exposed to the UV rays from the sun, and it's important to protect your skin from them!  This super charged moisture cream has SPF 15 Sunscreen.  It also has a light grapefruit scent that wakes you up (good for the morning)!  I use a little bit of this after I apply A Perfect World.
Ginger Body Scrub: This is becoming a favorite of mine.  I've been looking for a scrub/exfoliator for awhile, and I was so happy to stumble upon this one!  I have used it a few times, and I love it!  I use it after bathing, and the scent from the sweet ginger alone makes me happy! The sea salt removes the dead skin, and the mixture of oils in the scrub leave your skin very smooth with a nice sheen.  (Don't forget to use this on the bottoms of your feet)!

Modern Friction: I use this gentle dermabrasion on my face a couple times a week when I need to be refreshed!  Microdermabrasion can be so harsh on the skin (no one under 45 needs to be using it, in my opinion), and Modern Friction is a safer and gentler alternative that gives great results!  I immediately notice a difference in the clarity of my skin after one use!


For the Body:

You don't have to spend tons of money to have healthy and radiant skin!  I have been using these products since I was a child, and have no plans to change that fact!

Eucerin: I have eczema, and as a child, my breakouts were pretty bad.  This was the ONLY lotion that could moisturize my skin/dry patches.  It has a thick, creamy consistency, and your skin will stay hydrated throughout the day.  It can be a bit pricy for body lotion, but it's worth the cost.  TRUST.
Johnson & Johnson's Baby Oil: We all know about baby oil, whether we use it or not.  And I have to tell you, you don't have to be a baby to use it!  Here's one of my tricks to keeping my skin moisturized (especially during the winter).  After showering and rinsing off, don't towel dry.  Immediately after stepping out the shower, apply the baby oil to your entire body.  If you still are a little wet, blot dry those areas with your towel.  Proceed with applying lotion to your entire body, as you normally would.  You're now left with extremely soft skin, with a nice little glow.  Watch out now!
Palmer's Cocoa Butter, Swivel Stick: Cocoa Butter anything is one of the best ways to eliminate a scar or dark mark, and I use this swivel stick anywhere I need to!  Don't forget about your lips, I frequetly use this as a lip balm.
Vaseline: Vaseline is a household item that some people don't use to its fullest potential!  I make sure I coat my lips with this stuff every night before going to bed.  I don't know if anything will ever hydrate my lips like vaseline does lol!  If you've run out of makeup remover, and your facial wash isn't cutting it, try applying a little vaseline to the area, and wipe off with a soft tissue (especially for eye makeup)!  Ladies/Men with dry feet?  When getting ready for bed, coat your feet with vaseline, then wrap your feet in saran wrap overnight.  The saran wrap helps your feet retain moisture, and the next day you'll be doing the Moonwalk just like MJ!  If the saran wrap is too xcore, just throw on a pair of socks!

*Origins line can be purchased here, and they have physical store locations, and are sold in select department stores.  Their products are not tested on animals nor contain: Parabens, Phthalates, Propylene Glycol, Mineral Oil, PABA, Petrolatum, Paraffin, DEA, Synthetic Fragrance, Animal Ingredients.  All body care products can be found at your local Target, Walmart, or Grocery store.*

Thanksgiving is a few days away, and I'm excited to have some family time!  What are you thankful for this year?

Hi everyone!  Today is Thursday, and I am happy to say it because it's almost the weekend!  I wanna see Harry Potter tnite at midnight, but I can't find anyone who's available to go argh (I'll be working on this all day).  But I'm not going to be a complete geek and talk about HP the whole post...

I went to NYC on Tuesday to go to the re-launch of Ruff Ryder Records (previous artists include DMX, Eve, Jadakiss, renowned producer Swizz Beatz).  I actually got to meet Swizz Beatz and he seems really chill and down to earth.  I got to see the studio where he first started producing... He said he used to LIVE in that studio lol.  I hope some of that inspiration/passion/success rubbed off on me!

I've been slacking a little on my "re-vamp room" mission, only because I need help doing it.  And my bff's are not tryna help smh... I WILL make progress today, as soon as I press enter, I will be off organizing this room!

These are some pics of me before I got my "hurr did"

For those that saw my youtube video, I hope you liked it~

What are some hair products you can't live without??

wearing: vintage 70's poncho, black leggings, brown leather Madden boots, vintage jewelry

Happy Saturday!  I hope you are all having a lovely weekend!  I have really been enjoying this weather!  It's been in the mid sixties and sunny for the past few days (that's warm where I'm from, especially in November)!

Since my last post, I have been soul searching, changing some things in my life, and trying to bring some positive energy around me!  I decided a good way to do so would be to re-vamp my room!  I'm cleaning it (much needed, I know Mom...), re-organizing, and doing a little Feng Shui!  I have a new inspiration board, and am going to hang up some inspirational quotes (if you know of any, let me know)!  :-)

As some as you may or may not know, I am a big fan of hair care.  I love everything about hair, and I'm making it a point to know everything I can learn about black hair care.  Natural black hair care, specifically.  And if you don't know what I mean by "natural hair," I'm talking about sistah's who don't add any chemicals to their hair to alter their natural texture (not that I have anything against women who relax their hair).  Anywho, I have a youtube channel that talks about hair care (and I plan to eventually incorporate my music), and you can check it out here.

I was tired of the twists in my hair, so I took them out, got my hair blown out, and trimmed.  Do you like it?

I also just recorded a video of 10 ways to promote and maintain hair growth!!  You can check it out below :)



Have a safe and wonderful rest of the weekend!

"For Colored Girls who have considered suicide/When the rainbow is Enuf."


*update*

After posting my review, and discussing the film with both men and women, I've realized that I didn't touch on any downsides/negatives of the film.

1. Black men were portrayed poorly in the movie (besides the cop, who didn't have a big role).  Yes this is true, however, let's keep in mind that this movie was based off the 1975 award-winning Broadway play, which featured the choreopoems that you heard in the film.  The content of the movie was based on the content of the poems.  And these situations happen/have happened in real life.  It's not about For Colored Boys, it's about For Colored Girls, and it wasn't turned into a Hollywood-version, Sugar-coated, happy ending.  It is what it is.

2. The women in the film were very dependent, and not at peace with themselves.  Yes.  They were not.  I really suggest everyone pick up the book of poems, and I think a lot of people will get a better understanding of what this play was about.  If you thought you were going to see Waiting to Exhale 2, where everybody had a happy ending, you were sadly mistaken.

3. Tyler Perry had no right to make this film, he isn't a female!  Ok.  So this is me being COMPLETELY HONEST.  I think TP "Perrynized" this film.  We're used to Tyler Perry doing comedic films with overly dramatic plots.  And I feel that this was a big test on his skills as a director, if we would be able to pull this movie off... I think he did add a little bit of the over dramatization to the film, as antagonists assumed he would.  I also wished we heard Phylicia Rashad's poem about "Touissant" in totality (that was one of my favorites), as well as the scene were Whoopi and Thandie's character were both reciting their poems simultaneously.  I understand the "artistry" of it all, but we need to remember what this film is about.  I could go on and on about the story line and the fact that they all lived in the same building, and how extremely dramatic Janet's character was, but you get the point.  I think he fell a few steps short of Oscar worthy...

To officially rate this movie, I'd give it a B+ :)
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When I first learned that Tyler Perry was going to be adapting "For Colored Girls..." the award-winnng play into a feature film, I was very excited.  I immediately bought the book (which were the choreopoems), and from the layout, it felt like I was reading the script-which was awesome.  The poems were so beautifully written, with imagery and content for days, but also contained harsh realities of the things women of color face on the daily.

The play was also written in the 70's, and I was very interested to see how Tyler Perry was going to take these poems set then into present day.  Furthermore, I didn't know how well a male was going to portray these women's stories.  And I have to tell you, I think he did a phenomenal job!  I absolutely loved the film!!  Reading the poems were one thing, but the way each actress performed each poem, as a part of their dialog was outstanding.  Perry tailored the poems and dialog so well that resulted in a seamless deliverance!

Overall, I'd definitely recommend all women to see this film.  It was a tear jerker for sure, but it has a strong message, and exposes real life issues that are most times pushed under the rug!  Get a group of girls (guys too!) together and go see the movie!

I'm lookin' raw in these pictures, but I think it goes with my "Africa" theme :)

Have you seen the film?  What are your thoughts on the movie?

wearing: Vintage Dashiki, vintage jewelry, Enigma wedges